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Civility by Diana Olson:Fine Dining Tips--III

September 08, 2006

Fine dining skills show taste, refinement and consideration for the host, hostess and guests. Knowing what to do when the situation arises puts everyone at ease and helps to avoid many awkward moments. Sharing this information with children, too, helps give them social confidence and an extra edge in life. Everyone likes to be around those with social grace and kindness toward others. Etiquette is not snobbish, nor just for the socially elite. The benefits extend to all ages and in all business or social situations. I will share some more tips for fine dining:

  • Elbows are acceptable on the table only between courses when there is no food. During dining, the wrists always rest on the table edge. Elbows are always held close to the body.

  • Left-handed guests may be placed at the end of the table so that they have more comfort.

  • Passing food is always to the right, counter-clockwise. If there is a basket of rolls, for example, in front of you, hold the basket for the person on the left and allow him to take a roll. You may take one, and then pass it on, and that person may hold it for the next.

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  • Portions taken when served should be modest. Always consider how many will need to be served. Hostess will offer if there is enough food for second helpings.

  • Serving platters or serving bowls are served from the left to the right, with the fork facing up and the spoon facing down. Leave it in this position when you have finished serving yourself .

  • Cutting meat should be done only one cut at a time.

  • Chewing food while someone is asking a question: If someone asks you a question, put two fingers on the side of your cheek. This means, "I can answer when I am finished chewing."

  • No toothpicks in public. No chewing gum in public.

  • Gravy or sauce can be used on a small piece of bread.

  • Tasting Food from another's plate, with permission, can be done if you want to exchange a sample before taking the first bite. This may be done if it is a family member or close friend.

  • Begin dining after the last person (host or hostess) is served. Follow the lead of the host or hostess

    Write Diana Olson at diana@dianaolson.com or visit www.dianaolson.com.

    Next week: Fine Dining Tips IV © Diana Olson, 2006

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