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Seeing Stars: Putting the mask on yourself first

My oncologist said getting women to care for themselves is his biggest challenge.

July 06, 2011|By Cassandra M. Bellantoni
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Anyway, she would tell me how for photo ops campaign managers would pull Elizabeth out of the bus, disheveled, no makeup, sickly, with no attempt to hide her thinning hair and black toenails, so she could toss around a football with the Senator. Clearly, this was designed to show what a trooper she was and help him get the sympathy vote. All the while, he was cheating on this woman.

Elizabeth was a woman with vast resources, big money and staff.  She could have easily been home taking care of herself but she chose the most grueling lifestyle of all to get her lying cheat of a husband elected as president instead of focusing on her own healing. This is infuriating to me because of all the sick women out there who think that was bravery and an example of how a cancer patient should behave. It's really wrong and an example of what someone should absolutely not do.

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If you are an ill person behaving this way or know somebody acting like this, it must stop now. Life is short and sometimes the only thing that matters is you. If you care about yourself and loved ones, you must put the oxygen mask on yourself first.

Cassandra M. Bellantoni is a Los Angeles freelance reporter, producer, video editor and featured front-page blogger on Huffington Post. Follow her on Twitter @StarShineSpeaks or email cassandra_bellantoni@yahoo.com

 

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